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25 Ways to Fight Holiday Stress
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I know the holidays can be a very stressful time for people, so here is an interesting article on how to deal. As always regular meditation, Tai-Chi, Yoga, and other relaxing practices always help. I once worked as an Art Therapist at a rather large hospital in the psychiatric building and there were people who would have a breakdown right around the holidays like clockwork. We were their support system and helped them make it through the dark times. A few things I've learned is that it pays to have a plan and a good support system. It's OK to lean on friends and family if needed and there are always support lines manned 24 hours a day by people who enjoy talking and helping others.

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Holiday stress-busting tips
The shopping and crowds. The back-to-back diet-busting parties. The interminable chats with the in-laws. We understand how easy it is to feel not so wonderful at this most wonderful time of the year.

That's why we've rounded up these 25 expert-endorsed ways to help you dodge the seasonal blues and stay happy, healthy, and energized.

From quick stress-survival strategies to mood-brightening foods, here's your cheat sheet to holiday cheer.


Hike your mood with sunlight
It stimulates the production of feel-good serotonin and also helps relieve seasonal affective disorder (SAD), which impacts millions of Americans every year, says Judith Orloff, MD, an assistant professor of psychiatry at the University of California, Los Angeles.

To ease SAD symptoms, spend time outdoors or near a window on sunny days, or ask your doc about phototherapy (a treatment using a box that emits full-spectrum light).


Take a whiff of citrus
Researchers studying depression have found that certain citrus fragrances boost feelings of well-being and alleviate stress by upping levels of norepinephrine, a hormone that affects mood.

For an all-day pick-me-up, dab a little lemon or orange essential oil on a handkerchief to tuck in your pocket.



Walk away from worries
"The rhythm and repetition of walking has a tranquilizing effect on your brain, and it decreases anxiety and improves sleep," says nutrition-and-wellness expert Ann Kulze, MD. Aim for a brisk, half-hour walk every day.


Sleep better with 5-HTP
This plant extract (available in capsules at most drugstores) is thought to increase serotonin, reduce anxiety, and improve sleep. Dr. Orloff recommends 150 milligrams daily. If you take antidepressant medications, talk to your doc before trying it.


Squeeze here
The fleshy place between your index finger and thumb is called the hoku spot in traditional Chinese medicine. Applying firm pressure there for just 30 seconds can reduce stress and tension in your upper body. So if you start to feel overwhelmed by the holiday chaos, give your hand a squeeze and take a deep breathe.


Do less, enjoy more
"We go overboard to please others during the holidays: shopping, cooking, sending cards, and attending every event," says George Pratt, PhD, a psychologist at Scripps Memorial Hospital La Jolla in California. "Instead, take care of yourself by saying no at least once—and maybe more."


Stick with your daily routine
Prioritize your workouts, book club, etc., and don't try to squeeze in more holiday than you can handle, says Katherine Muller, PsyD, an assistant professor of psychology at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine in New York City.


Don't neglect whatever cracks you up
Laughing like crazy reduces stress hormones. That, in turn, helps immune cells function better, says psychologist Steve Wilson, founder of the World Laughter Tour, an organization that offers therapeutic-laughter training.


Forget perfection
Stop obsessing over doing it all. The world is not going to end if the house is a little cluttered or dinner is on the table a few minutes late. "Focus your energy on enjoying the people in your life," says Donna Schempp, the program director for the Family Caregiver Alliance. Don't sweat the small stuff and your holiday will be much more enjoyable!


Get out of the house
If your family members often pick on one another at the holiday table, taking the fun out of meals, consider eating family brunches or dinners in restaurants. "Being in public discourages loud voices and bad behavior," says Muller.


Consider abandoning old customs
Abandoning old customs can be a good strategy if you're lonely or grieving, suggests Cathy Frank, MD, medical director of the Henry Ford Behavioral Health Outpatient Center. Experiment with a different culture's customs, or invite isolated colleagues over and start some new traditions.


Be a picky volunteer
Take on only one or two holiday jobs, and learn how to delegate parts of a task, advises Richard Shadick, PhD, director of the Counseling Center at Pace University in New York.


Solicit help the smart way
Ask individually instead of emailing groups of colleagues, relatives, or friends, says Noah Goldstein, PhD, an assistant professor of human resources and organizational behavior at the UCLA Anderson School of Management. In mass requests, recipients assume they don’t need to volunteer to help because someone else will do it.


Go tech-free
Constant cell phone buzzes and email alerts keep us in a perpetual fight-or-flight mode due to bursts of adrenaline. Not only is this exhausting, but it contributes to mounting stress levels, especially in women. What better time to turn your gadgets off than during a holiday get-together? Enjoy spending time with your family and friends without worry.


Savor a spicy meal
Hot foods trigger the release of endorphins—the natural chemicals that trigger feelings of euphoria and well-being, Dr. Kulze says.


Dip into some honey
You'll get an instant kick and energy for the long haul. Plus, research shows that its antioxidant and antibacterial properties may improve your immunity. Here's a tip: The darker the honey, the more powerful the antioxidant punch.


Eat breakfast before you tank up on coffee
Caffeine on an empty stomach can cause blood sugar levels to spike, which can cause attention problems and irritability, says New York City–based clinical psychologist Joe Cilona, PsyD.


Give a 'hands-on' gift
In one study, participants who gave massages had fewer medical woes and less stress than those who received rubdowns. Best scenario: You and your partner gift each other.


Say yes, yes, yes!—to sex
In addition to boosting immunity, a satisfying romp can slay stress and raise self-esteem, experts say. Orgasms increase endorphins (natural painkillers) and raise oxytocin levels, which promotes sound sleep.


Turn up the tunes
Anxious? Listen to your favorite music, whether it's Jingle Bell Rock or the latest from Jay-Z. Research from the University of Maryland shows that hearing music you love can relax blood vessels and increase blood flow. That not only calms you down but is good for your heart, too.


Your recipe for relaxation
Craving something sweet? Ditch the holiday cheesecake and try a delicious mango pie instead. The sweet, tangy scent of mangoes—whether they're fresh or jarred—may alter your blood chemistry and send a wave of calm over your body, research from Japan shows.


Fit in exercise
It may be the last thing you feel like doing when you're stressed out, but going for a run or hitting the gym can actually make you feel better. Research has found that workouts can boost your mood for up to 12 hours.


Don't overschedule
If you're feeling stressed and overwhelmed by your holiday agenda, don't over schedule your time and take on more than you can manage. Remember: It's OK to slow down a bit.


Plan a real vacation
Taking at least four or five days off work dramatically lowers your stress level. If you have kids and opt for a staycation during the holidays, take turns with your partner doing kid-duty—or send them off to their own vacation at grandma's.


Think positive
The holidays may drive you to your breaking point, but don't focus on the bad. Negative thinking can trigger the your body's stress response, just as a real threat does. Remember, it's time to celebrate with your family and friends (even if they do stress you out!). An optimistic outlook will help you cope with challenges that come your way.

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Christmas has always been a double-edged kicker for me. On one hand, it's the time of the year I get to really thrive with the people I love the hardest. On the other hand, it tends to send me back to childhood, to the rougher times of my life. I am both at my best and my worst during Christmas. Both giving and struggling my hardest.

It's gotten easier with time. I've gotten better at breathing it out, refinding my balance.

This Christmas is different though. I know and have fully accepted that our family won't have many more like it, not in the form it is now. Sooner or later that one Christmas will come, in which my mum's not there. And that will be a different Christmas, one I can't venture to guess how will look or be experienced.

So I focus on the one that's at hand right now. This Christmas my mum's still here. My siblings are here. I am here. We have a full season to enjoy the present moment in each other's company. And nothing could go wrong to the point where it can or should put a dampener on our appreciative spirit. If the potatoes boil wrong, if the meat turns less than perfect, if the whole darn Christmas tree catches on fire, it's all still good. Because it's a house filled with love and light, and I am going to truly enjoy it. It helps that the boyfriend will be coming over; and he's sworn he'll get me to relax like his life depends on it, lol.

Though I am confident I can ground myself into a state of peaceful acceptance on my own. I've got a loving family. Many don't; thus have a much harder time enjoying a holiday that's so family centered. Christmas is that time of year that the hotlines are the busiest, the DPS (pshycological ER in Norway) are the busiest and that most people end up in hospitals due to self-harming and suicide attempts. It's always important to be kind; but Christmas may be the one season where it's the most important.

If one can; invite ones neighbors, be particularly attentive with friends who struggle with loneliness, do volunteer work, pick up the phone if one got someone in mind who might need some kind words... Presents, Christmas dinners, all that stuff is just stuff. People and connections, that's what really matters. Being a part of something, helping other people be a part of something; giving something that really matters.

It's a noisy season, whatever we can do to lessen the noise and to put good things out there... that's what's really in the right spirit for the season.



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